LifePulp Featured ☆Effendy Karto☆'s Post:

Loving One's Self
To love and be loved is the best thing that can happen to an individual. It brings joy and peace to an individual. However, for one to be able to love one must love themselves enough so as to be able to spread the love to other people. One needs to appreciate themselves so as to be able to appreciate others. Loving oneself fully is the hardest thing that most people are able to do as there is always something that an individual wishes that he could change about him or her.

To be able to love oneself is all about accepting who you are and loving that which you are. There are several things/guidelines that one can apply to be able to love oneself and they include: (what to do to love yourself)

Loving Yourself is the Key to Love Others
To always look at the challenges that you face in life as teachings and not curses asking your self why me but rather learn from them and make you a better person and also help others with what you have learned from the experience.

To always remove yourself from situations or people that hurt your self esteem for example abusive people or people that treat you like crap.

To never allow to be pushed around and forced to do things that to do not want to do. Have the ability to say no when not feeling up to the task that is presented to you.

Not to allow yourself to be filled with other peoples believes but live this life according to what you believe is right and according to what your heart tells you.

If one despises you telling you that it is impossible for you to do some things thank them for their opinion and know it in your hurt that you can achieve all things all you have to do is put your will into doing it.

When you compare yourself with others it is important to always remind yourself that every person has his own special qualities and even though that the other person may seem to have an advantage you know it in your heart that you contain some special qualities that he to wished he had.

To always express everything from your heart and do that which brings joy to you and not others.

To never try and mould yourself to what the other people in your life think that you should be but rather be proud of who you are and the way that you are.

When you have problems in your life it would be best if you avoided discussing it with people that you would not want to be in their situation at any given time.

It would also be best to relieve all personal blame of the life that you are living on others and take it as your personal responsibility to shape your life in the way that you want to live it.

And finally it would be to stop trying to make other people understand you but rather allow them for their vie wand continue living your life as you wished it to be as long as it is not harmful to any individual.