Instead of making your bf or gf as your inpiration make your family as your inspiration because whatever happen in our life family is still there for us,Instead of murmuring for what your mothers says just sit down and listen to what your mom saying because she knows better than you,Instead of promising just do it because promises are made to be broken,Instead of telling lies tell the truth at that way you will feel good not guilty at all,Instead of being sentimental be practical because this is life enjoy it,Instead of running away from your problem face it and find a solution because there is no problem that dont have a solution..and instead of getting mad to the person who give you advice be thankful to them because they care for you..