☆Effendy Karto☆ posted:

"We can take lessons from everything that happens to us, even those things we see as negative. If we spend our time berating ourselves, though, we can blind ourselves to the good that's imbedded in the situation, and we can lose a wonderful learning experience. What other people do to us is a reflection of them, not of us, and what the world does to us is a reflection of the world's complete neutrality, not of our self-worth. Only we can build our self-worth. There's something special for everyone to do. Remember, no experience is a bad experience unless you gain nothing from it." Lyndon Baines Johnson